Here are the signs to watch out for if you really want to know if he’s serious about you.
He Says Things Like “You’re The Only One Who…”
When a man makes it clear how special you are (obviously), by saying you’re the only woman who’s ever done fill-in-the-blank for him or made him feel this way, he’s on his way to don the tux.
You’re Invited To His Family Events
If he imagines you having a lead role in the big picture, he will include you in family holidays and bring you as his plus one to other special events. He wouldn’t want his family and friends to get close to you if he didn’t want you to stick around for the long haul.
He Considers You Part of His Team
Because a guy’s career is a main part of his identity, confiding in you about work problems or crediting you for work successes means that he values you as an equal. Ditto for referring to you as a proud member of his “team.” That means you’re in life partner territory.
He Has Married Friends
Does he roll his eyes at every wedding invitation he gets? Or moan about another double date with your married friends? This could be a giveaway that he’s not ready…yet. But if most of a guy’s network of friends is married already, he’s going to start feeling like the odd man out and be more comfortable taking the leap himself.
He Increases His Touch
Once he decides you’re going to be his future Mrs., expect him to be way more touchy-feely, almost like when you first started dating. He might massage your neck when you’re working or touch your arm while you’re cooking.
He Wants To Live Together
Nothing says committed more than a guy giving up his precious man cave. If he’s willing to share his space voluntarily—not just as a way to save money—he’s thinking wifey material. For many guys, it’s like the dress rehearsal before the main act. Bonus points if he brings up the topic
He Suggests Sharing More Than Just a Bedroom
And we’re not referring to bodily fluids here… Because money is also key to a dude’s ego, his willingness to open a joint bank account or get a pet with you shows that he wants to solidify your bond.
His Normal Behavior Starts Going Into Overdrive
If you’ve been together for awhile and all of a sudden, he starts to act first-day-of-school excited, that might mean he’s getting giddy at the thought of proposing.
He Doesn’t Call You Bossy
Any marriage therapist will tell you feeling on equal ground is key. So if your guy never calls you “bossy,” “controlling,” or “uptight,” it’s a good sign. Those words imply that he feels he’s being caged in. So if he doesn’t use them, that means he’s open to sharing his life with someone whose skills and abilities complement his own.
His Paternal Clock is Ticking
Yup, guys have a ticking time bomb too. Even if they’re not ready for diapers yet, many men worry about being old dads. If he makes a joke about your future kids, you know he’s imagining settling down and starting his own family with you.
this is the follow-up article i spoke about
Here are the signs to watch out for if you really want to know if he’s serious about
He Says Things Like “You’re The Only One Who…”
This is a big lie.. No woman is ever the only one for any man.. This does not mean that he doesnt love you o!! But that story of you being the only one na LIE!! If you doubt me, cheat on him with his best friend lets see if another 'ONLY ONE' will not show up and replace you 'the former only one'!!
You’re Invited To His Family Events
FA! FA! FA! FOWL!! Before I got engaged, I attended all family functions with a date.. Introduced them to all my relatives sef.. This is not a sign that he wants to marry you o!! INFACT!! Its just to make you relax and open your legs!! Its sort of like Rohipnol.. because you have met his family, you think its settled and then you allow him access your jerusalem!!
He Considers You Part of His Team
WTF!!! What team?! Every girl that any guy is f[u]cking is part of his team.. The beauty of a team is that you can transfer players, buy, sell and loan new ones.. DONT BE DECIEVED!!
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He Has Married Friends
CHOI!! This is what should set off the alarm bells.. If all his friends are married and he isnt, that means that he has no plans of marrying anytime soon...
He Increases His Touch
Last time I checked, when a Man increases his touch, he wants to have sex.. Meaning 'HE IS HORNY, not a sign that he wants to marry you!
He Wants To Live Together
DONT BE FOOLED!! NA Housegirl ehn want!! A live in chick who cooks, cleans and has sex with him whenever he wants!! Thats every guys dream!!
He Suggests Sharing More Than Just a Bedroom
ARGH!! Joint ACCOUNT!!! Juju is involved.. Even married men sef no dey mumu this kind mumu talkless of boyfriend and girlfriend paroles..
His Normal Behavior Starts Going Into Overdrive
Omo!! If you notice this, he has gotten another babe outside.. Start to pack your bags...
He Doesn’t Call You Bossy
I dont even get this one because no guy will date a bossy chick for starters..
His Paternal Clock is Ticking
SINCE WHICH DAY MEN START TO GET CLOCK?! Abi we don start to dey reach MENopause?! Chai!!
lol..what do you think?
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