Dear ladies, Firstly, if you are still struggling to find a husband at an old age simply because you are looking for a perfect man, Something may be wrong with your perception of things.
Now, your propaganda magazine tells you that 'All men are liars, cheats and useless, but let’s be honest here, which is more likely? Is it that there’s something wrong with about 70million African men OR there is something wrong with one African Woman? you Ladies certainly will not get into a blissful matrimony if you are always hanging out with your so called girlfriends every night at å beer parlor or bar waiting for a guy to buy you a drink &take you home afterwards. Drinking yourself to stupor every Friday & Saturday night does not exactly make you look like wife material.
You want a man?...invest in a good wardrobe and dress responsibly not like a mad person. When a man comes to you, smile and be polite, even if he does not fit your mental image of your dream man. Ladies, stop coming into relationships with a chip on your shoulders. If you believe all men are bad and all men are Dogs, then it will become a self fulfilling prophesy. No man is perfect! You say you can't marry a blue collar guy like a mechanic or carpenter, Now if a carpenter was good enough to marry Mary mother of Jesus Christ, why isn't one good enough for you? Do not focus on where a man is now, but look and see where he has the potentials to be. What’s the point of being beaten to a pulp every night by some rich, good looking and non caring man? Do you want a future where you will sit in traffic in your BMW X6, GUCCI sunglasses covering your swollen eyes and look out of the window to see a happy couple in a keke napep holding hands and laughing like newly weds even after 12 years of marriage. your perfect man is out there, believe, work and pray and you will get him. Shalom!!!
so what do you guys think of this?
Well said! There's no such thing as a 'perfect man', U wait on him; U go wait tire!
ReplyDeleteIf ur man doesnt cheat on you, really! U need 2 thank ur stars. He is indeed a 'rare gem'.Bt dat doesn't mean he won't lie to you, or hit you, or do series of annoying things in a marathon-like manner or just be unbelievably stingy. Lol!
D earlier we realise dat there's no such thing as 'Mr Perfect' the better and happier we'll be in our relationships. Cos, I swear! Believing in the existence of a perfect man can send one to an early grave. #nojokes!
And for those still lookn for a relationship wt the perfect man... Please, I beg of u; give up the search! The earlier you do, the faster u'll find a man that is suitable for you (not perfect oh...SUI-TA-BLE!!!).
I agree with you anonymous, Mr. Right is just a myth that m and b books and romance movies have frustrated us with..the earlier we recover and connect with reality, the happier we'll all be
ReplyDeleteI agree wit d 1st anonymous
ReplyDeleteI agree wit d 1st anonymous
ReplyDeleteYes I totally agree
ReplyDeleteLmao@ unbelievably stingy. I couldnt agree more with you and anonymous. But the part abt sumtin being wrong with 70 million men or sumtin being wrong with you isnt entirely correct. Cuz something IS wrong with 70 million men but something is wrong with all of us anyways. So i agree.
ReplyDeleteis it possible that all the anonymous agreeing with anonymous one are all one and the same anonymous? lol. On the blog, i agree, but still at the end of the day ladies should never settle, you set a minimum standard if he meets it then fine..but doesn't mean you shouldn't hope to find a man who exceeds your minimum standard. Because trust me, men don't settle...neither should women...
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